Showing posts with label BB Gandanghari. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BB Gandanghari. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

BB Gandanghari has a lover in the US but says he broke his promise to visit her this month


BB Gandanghari had been mum about her relationship status for the longest time, but she was in such a good mood at a recent press conference that she finally opened up about having left her heart in the States.

“Magde-deny sana ako,” BB said with a laugh. “Magaling siyang magluto,” she said of her boyfriend.

And?

“Baka nga wala na kami,” she quipped.  “At a time like this, when you feel so pressured (at work), you just want somebody to be there, na makakausap mo.”

Love is bound to disappoint, be it in relationships that are unconventional or otherwise. The guy in question had promised to join BB here in Manila this month but didn’t make good on his word.

“I was really expecting na darating siya ng Feb, pero hindi nangyari so medyo na-disappoint ako. Mahirap mag-expect tapos hindi mangyayari,” she said.

Good thing that there is her second foray into theater to think about and occupy her time, something that does not disappoint like lovers that fall short on their promises.

In this latest restaging of “Halik Ng Tarantula,” adapted from the film and Broadway versions of “Kiss of the Spider Woman” by famous novelist Manuel Puig, BB plays both Molina, a persecuted gay inmate, and Irena, the spiderwoman, originally played by Sonia Braga in the film version and Vanessa Williams in the Broadway musical version.

BB is aware that Hollywood actor William Hurt played Molina in the 1985 film version and walked off with an Oscar for his performance. “Pinanood ko siya nu’ng malaman ko na gagawin ko na ‘yung play. Usually takot ako na manood ng ibang actors who had played a role na gagawin ko rin, pero, ito, hindi ako natakot panoorin ‘yung movie. Na-curious lang ako kung paano ginawa ni William Hurt. I’ll attack it differently,” she revealed.

“Kiss of the Spiderwoman” offers the kind of challenge that interests BB. “Basically kasi it’s a two-character play so you have to be able to hold people’s attention for two hours. The glory there is kapag nakita mong nag-enjoy ang mga tao,” she said.

“Halik ng Tarantula,” translated in Filipino by the late playwright Rene Villanueva, tells of two inmates — Valentin, a political prisoner, and Molina, a homosexual fond of recalling scenes from old movies he has seen — sharing the same cell in a Buenos Aires prison in the ’70s.

The part of Valentin is as integral as Molina’s. Three acting newbies have been tapped to tackle the role, namely Jet Alcantara, Xyrus Cruz, and Jovic Monsod.

Cruz, as of this writing, had backed out from the production because he allegedly didn’t see it necessary to go out on “group bonding sessions” with BB to get a feel of the play.

That is, however, a whole different story. BB said she and the production group had thought of getting more seasoned performers for the role of Valentin but for various reasons, decided on hiring acting tyros. “Physically, it’s the eyes. And then there’s the attitude towards work, ‘yung dedication nila,” she answered when asked how they picked her leading men in the play.

Because “Halik ng Tarantula” is a largely political play with sexual undertones, BB admitted that there are scenes that require her and her leading man to engage in acts of intimacy.

“Sabihin na nating I’m very open kung ano ‘yung requirements ng role. Nakakatuwa itong mga lalaki (who will alternate in the role of Valentin), kasi kaswal na lang sa kanila kapag nagri-rehearsal na magtanong, ‘Ito na po ba ‘yung scene na naka-boxers na lang? Naka-briefs na lang?’ Ang ganda kasi nung script kaya mai-imbibe mo talaga ‘yung character,” she shared.

“Halik ng Tarantula” will run from Match 7 to 9 at Teatrino Promenade Arcade in Greenhills.

source: interaksyon.com

Saturday, August 25, 2012

BB Gandanghari Willing To Do Sexy Magazine Pictorial


BB Gandanghari has already donned two-piece bikinis in some of his modeling stints abroad. And he’s willing to do the same for a local magazine.

The actor, who has done ramp modeling and trunk shows in New York, told “Bandila” on Tuesday night that although posing for a sexy magazine won’t be a “big deal,” he admitted, “ayoko lang paglaruan.”

“But if it’s really just a thing for editorial purposes, wala naman akong qualms diyan,” he added.

Since his return to the country a few months ago, as well as an eventual showbiz comeback of sorts, BB has been hounded with questions regarding sex change, which he has not directly addressed. When “Bandila” host Boy Abunda asked him to identify himself, BB confessed, “It has become very complicated already. I don’t wanna label myself…”

Nevertheless, he deemed that the “best word to describe me now is I’m androgynous in process.” Androgynous means having both male and female characteristics.

“As an orientation I may be considered as a gay person, but deep in my heart I feel the other way so hayaan na natin sa ganyan,” he also related.

BB, then actor Rustom Padilla of the famous Padilla band of brothers, “came out” in Feb. 2006 through “Pinoy Big Brother Celebrity Edition,” where he was one of the housemates. A month after that, he asked for a voluntary exit.

The 44-year-old admitted that “PBB” became the “perfect venue” for the confession, especially because “I want it na isahan. Ayokong mag-explain [sa] each group...

“That was my plan, that it will be my venue to talk to the Filipino people… who’s been supporting me all those years, because I have been an actor for like 15 years when I entered ‘PBB.’ During those times maraming haka-haka. So just to settle the issue straight… I think ‘PBB’ was the perfect venue. Plus the fact na I don’t wanna be probed while coming out at the time,” he explained.

When sought for comment on his seeming deviation from an interview statement years back that he would not dress up like a woman, BB said that he was talking then as Rustom.

“I take offense not because people just call me Rustom. I take offense because I think we have to give it to Rustom because if I was Rustom, I wouldn’t be dressing up this way. Exactly the point kasi ganun talaga mag-isip si Rustom. Lalaki siya eh. Sabihin mo nang gay man siya, ganun siya. But I’m dressing up this way because I am BB. I talk this way because I am BB,” he said.

BB previously related to TV5’s “Paparazzi” the discrimination he experienced in the US. Now, “very surprisingly,” he feels he has been subjected more to discrimination overseas than in the Philippines. It even got to a point where he had difficulty looking for a job.

“Actually mas ngayon ko nararamdaman kasi remember, nagkaron lang ako ng transition a few years ago so ngayon lang talaga ako nabubuhay bilang si BB. At ngayon ko lang nakikita ‘yung reaction sa’kin ng mga tao. So I when I went to the US two years ago, at dun na ko nagpakilala bilang si BB, dun ko nakita, iba… Sabi namin sa Amerika, ‘Oh, we are the new Black now.’ It’s really discriminating, ‘yung mag-apply ka, siyempre ang kita sa’yo babae ‘di ba, eh siyempre sa application mo naman, hindi mo naman dadayain ‘yon. So ‘pag nakita [na lalaki ka], ‘next,’” he recalled.

He also recalled his work experience in a New York restaurant where “ayaw nila akong ilagay sa front because of my orientation.”

Meanwhile, his celebrity status here might’ve “shielded” him a bit from discrimination, BB surmised.

“People tend to accept you as you are kasi artista ka, natutuwa sila kay BB. Pero nakakaramdam ka rin ng diskriminasyon in some other ways kasi makakarinig ka ng mga comment na, ‘Okay lang siya sa’min, basta ‘wag siyang magpapa-opera ha.’ That’s discriminating, ‘di ba? Not necessarily sa akin but to other people who opted for that…” said he.

He may have yet to discover his purpose, but BB enthused he is happy right now and doesn’t regret his past decisions. He also did not dare question God because he believes that everyone has their own burdens to carry.

But does he still miss his old self?

“Hindi. I know he’s more at peace now so I’ll let him be,” BB said with a smile.

source: mb.com.ph


Monday, June 4, 2012

Zoren And BB's First Meeting Leads To Closure

MANILA, Philippines - After setting a number of meetings that have been put off, Zoren Legaspi and BB Gandanghari finally came face to face, finding answers to questions they've always wanted to ask each other, and eventually, their long wished-for closure.

The taped interview, aired on "Paparazzi Showbiz Exposed," June 2, started off awkwardly, with Zoren calling BB "madame" because he was unsure of how to address the transexual model whose "previous" self, actor Rustom Padilla, happens to be the ex-husband of Zoren's long-time partner, Carmina Villaroel.

Although still looking quite uneasy, Zoren asked BB whether the latter has ever had ill feelings towards him.

BB was quick to respond, "Honestly, wala."

If there's anything he feels towards Zoren, it's gratitude, BB said.

"I can see that you’re taking care of Carmina and I’m very happy. Ang gusto ko lang naman is mapunta sa maganda si Carmina in the end. And I think that she’s very happy with you. If only for that... kung sama at sama ng loob, wala. Galit, wala.

“[Pero] kung ang pag-uusapan si Rustom ha, kumbaga bago pa namayapa si Rustom, hindi siguro sama ng loob 'yun or hindi tampo, kung hindi, of course, at that time, parang siguro wini-wish niya na 'yung happiness na nararamdaman ninyong dalawa is sana na-experience din niya 'yun, siguro 'yun lang 'yun," he added.

Rustom and Carmina got married in 1994, only to part ways three years after. Then in 2001, Carmina gave birth to her twins with Zoren.

Rustom's stint as one of the housemates of the first "Pinoy Big Brother Celebrity Edition" paved the way for him to "come out" in 2006. Eventually, he metamorphosed into BB Gandanghari. Carmina revealed in a TV interview earlier this year that before Rustom entered the "PBB" house, he already confessed to her the truth about his sexuality.

It turns out, as BB related in his "Paparazzi" interview, that of all the very few people he wanted to talk to about the big truth first, "si Carmina lang 'yung nakausap ko."

"Dun ko nakilala si Carmina, dun nabuo 'yung respeto ko sa kanya, bilang tao. At sabi ko sa sarili ko na siguro sa lahat ng nangyari, it was a blessing na si Carmina 'yung naging parte, kung may masakit man na nangyari o kung ano man pero… kasi napakaganda ng handling ng mga nangyari. I was very thankful and I was also very grateful na pumayag ka [na magka-usap kami], kasi siyempre at that time, may sarili na kayong buhay eh," he said.

Asked if it was hard saying sorry to Carmina, BB responded "yes and no."

"It was difficult because I didn’t wanna make her feel na there was deception at that time because probably there wasn’t. So 'yung pag so-sorry is, kung mangyayari man ito ngayon, baka masaktan ka. Kaya ako nagso-sorry, or baka maapektuhan ka, or baka meron kang maisip na hindi maganda. Kaya ako nagso-sorry.

“It was difficult also na sabihin sa kanya 'yon kasi ayoko na kasi pahabain eh, 'di ba? But nangyari 'yun kasi out of respect… Kung merong isang tao na nakakakilala kay Rustom, I think si Carmina 'yun eh, so I just thought I owe it to her… the honesty and all," BB said at length.

Coming "out," BB has found his freedom and happiness. He's now surer of himself and his wants—unlike Rustom, who was "very insecure" and a "people pleaser," according to BB.

"But I can be happier," BB added, though intimating that there are still challenges.

"Tinatanong nga nila if this a preference or what. Sabi ko, 'No, this is an orientation, my sexuality is an orientation...' So it’s not a choice, because if this is a choice, wow! A hundred times kong iisipin if this will be my choice… But since it's not a choice, kahit mahirap siya, kailangan mong harapin, kailangan mong tanggapin," he said.

BB's turn

Zoren then turned the tables on BB. The latter's first query was, "Bakit mo ‘ko gustong ma-interview?”

To this the actor-TV host responded, "Gusto kita talagang ma-interview… because I want that closure in the eyes of the public. Gusto ko sanang masara siya and maintindihan ng publiko na it’s really not a big deal, sa ating tatlo, it’s just a big deal dahil hindi pa tayo nagkita-kita."

He added that the interview would help him get to know BB, the person who's an integral part of Carmina's past.

"Hindi na 'yun mabubura kahit ano pa'ng sabihin mo. You're still included and gusto kitang makilala. And I’m very thankful na you said yes to this interview, nagkakilala tayo, and I’m very happy na nabunutan ako ng tinik sa mga narinig ko sa 'yo and lalo kitang nirespeto," said Zoren.

BB then asked whom Zoren would prefer to interview, him or Rustom. The latter chose BB, deeming that "mas marami akong magagandang itanong sa'yo. And marami kang mas magagandang masasabi sa akin."

He went on to say, "Medyo mas magiging kabado 'ko kung si Rustom 'yung mai-interview ko. Magiging guy-to-guy talk eh, hindi kagaya natin, mas calm, may tawanan…"

"Mas gusto kita, close na nga tayo 'di ba?" Zoren added, prompting laughter from him and BB.

Lastly, BB wanted to know how much Zoren loves Carmina.

“Hindi pa 'ko nagloloko. You know, maraming hindi naniniwala. Maraming tukso siyempre, pero malaki talagang sakripisyo ko to keep the family intact. So, ang ginagawa ko talaga para makaiwas ako dun, hindi na talaga ako lumalabas, I mean I hang out with the kids.

“Gaano ko kamahal si Carmina? Ayoko kasing cliché yung sagot, eh. Siguro right now, kasi she’s not good with money, siguro sa sobrang mahal ko sa kanya, I’m so afraid na mawala ako, mauna ako sa kanya. Ganun kasi ako mag-isip… Sini-set ko na siya, just in case na mawala ako, meron na siyang mga investment na hindi niya alam," Zoren related.

In closing the interview, Zoren thanked BB and assured him that everything is water under the bridge now.

"From here sana, this is a beginning for all of us… You know, bagong pakikitungo sa isa’t-isa. Kumbaga let's start as a family… we can be a family, 'di ba? Wala namang problema dun," he said.

Touched by his words, BB remarked, “Wow, 'yun yata 'yung pinakamaganda kong narinig ngayon. I’m very happy that I finally talked to you. And hopefully, [I can] meet your whole family. That’s my wish.”

The interview ended with the two giving each other a warm hug.

Live meeting

Zoren and BB's touching encounter didn't end there. They met again live on the "Paparazzi" studio where they shared their thoughts about how the interview went.

BB was also asked what he meant by his “Naba-blangko naman ako sa tingin mo sa'kin" quip to Zoren during the taped interview.

"Eh kaya yata na-in love sa kanya si Carmina eh grabe tumitig eh! No wonder. Now I understand. Kaya ako nagtanong kung meron [siyang] kapatid," said BB, eliciting cheers from the show's hosts as well as the studio audience.

He turned serious as he related his wish for his family.

"I just wish peace and ginagawa ko naman lahat 'to kasi gusto ko lang talaga, this is not a very fairy tale to me, hindi 'yung paggising ko sa umaga happily ever after na. May mga challenges everyday just as you guys have to face challenges too. Mahirap lang kasi I belong to the minority na minsan nakakadanas din ng discrimination. Sana lang kung hindi talaga matatanggap, sana maintindihan," BB said.

source: mb.com.ph

Friday, May 4, 2012

BB Gandanghari still mum on sex change rumor

MANILA, Philippines – BB Gandanghari remains evasive whenever the sex change issue is raised during his interviews.

At the recent Guillermo Mendoza Box-Office Awards night, the former actor-turned-model refused to dignify reports that he’d already undergone a sex change operation.

“As much as I wanna comment pero I don’t wanna comment kasi talagang it’s very personal to me, alam mo ‘yon. Yun lang. Sana iwan n’yo na sa akin ‘yon,” he said on “24 Oras,” April 30.

Although he’s happy to be back home after working as an androgynous model in the US for two years, BB is not completely happy because she knows that some people—his brother Robin Padilla, for one—still do not approve of his sexual preference or his orientation.

“As much it pains me to know na may mga taong malalapit sa ‘yo na may reservations about you, about sa pagkatao ko, but pinagpapasa-Diyos ko na lang. Maybe one day everything will be okay,” he said.

When BB returned from the US last month, Robin, in an interview, had said, “Shocked ako, eh. Lalo na ako.”

Although the latter never really revealed anything about what surprised him, rumors that BB underwent a sex change operation were rampant.

However, BB is very happy that his mom Eva Carino and niece Kylie Padilla have fully accepted his new persona. Apparently, the two would even come to him for fashion tips.

As BB works hard to reconnect with some family members, he notes that, as of now, he isn’t really privy yet to many of their concerns. So when he was asked about Kylie’s love life, BB said, “Alam mo hindi pa namin napag-uusapan ‘yan. Hindi pa niya sa akin nao-open, actually. But, of course, I know [of it].”

Asked about developments in his personal life, BB simply shared, “Siguro darating ‘yon.”

He also added, “Of course, I meet people, especially in the US. May mga pagkakataon na lumalabas ka rin pero wala pang seryoso.”

source: mb.com.ph

Monday, March 19, 2012

BB Gandanghari recounts life in New York, 'changes' in his life


MANILA, Philippines - A few years have already passed since he left the country for New York but BB Gandanghari is still hounded about undergoing sex change.

Temporarily back in the country for some commitments, the former actor, who sports a medium length hair and a skinnier physique, played coy on the matter during his first live local interview in years.

"Whatever you're seeing now, is the manifestation of how I really feel deep inside. I've made decisions in my life and I guess, [they're] the best decisions I've ever made. It made me surer. It made me happier. It made me more peaceful..." he told Mariel Rodriguez—wife of her brother Robin Padilla—who was a special guest host on "Paparazzi Showbiz Exposed," March 17.

"But I hope you will forgive me if I don't talk more about it because whatever's between my legs is basically my own private thing. And hopefully, my partner’s…" he trailed off, laughing.

Mariel then prodded him if "it ever crossed your mind… to change?" BB seemingly continued the playful guessing game by responding with a smile, "You think I haven't changed?"

"I have nothing against change… I've embraced my change. I've embraced everything and happy ako," he added.

BB, however, declined to comment on how his family has taken to his new self because "I don't wanna say anything na puwedeng pagsimulan ng sama ng loob."

Life in New York

BB recalled flying to New York in 2010 to try his luck in modeling. The journey, however, was not only long but a challenging one. He had to "work on" himself in order to fulfill his aspirations.

"I walked six miles in the morning and six miles at night. I do yoga, everything. Tapos there was a time na nag-ahensya ako. Tapos sabi lang sa'kin, 'You can't just fit in the dress. So if you think you can fit in the dress, come back to us.' Ang lola, 'day, kailangan na 'yung cleansing, for 24 days. I did that. I was 140 when they said that to me. I went down to 115. Konting disiplina lang po!" he proudly related.

He apparently couldn't afford to give up and back down from the competitive world in the Big Apple given that "aapak-apakan ka sa New York 'pag hindi ka buo!"

BB leads a normal life in the States, walking on the subway, doing his laundry, going to the market, and cooking his meals. This kind of life made him realize, "'Pag hindi ka gagalaw, walang gagalaw for you."

"At bawal magkasakit… I was with my dogs... I'm taking care of [them]. So kahit blizzard siya, 'day, every morning, nandyan ako sa kalye't nilalakad ko ang aso ko," he added.

Although he had to fend for himself, BB realized that, indeed, no man is an island.

"Noon akala ko I can do it myself, I can be independent. So 'yun 'yung mga pagbabago na, I tried to relate to people more, and then pagdating sa trabaho, kailangan mo talagang seryosohin. And you can't be too conscious of yourself," he said.

Another aspect of his life in New York that he has to grapple with is the discrimination against androgynous models, whom he said are considered "the new Black in the fashion industry."

"I was considered an androgynous model. Basically it is gearing towards genderless fashion. Ang dami ngayong modelo sa New York na lalake pero kinukuha sila to model female clothes… Kung ang ordinaryong babae will prove herself 100 percent, we have to prove ourselves 200 percent or even more," shared BB.

Ready for Carmina

Another burning question that BB had to address during the "Paparazzi" interview was about facing his ex-wife (when he was still Rustom Padilla), Carmina Villaroel. The reunion of sorts is apparently more likely than ever, as the former "Pinoy Big Brother" celebrity housemate expressed his openness and readiness to "face anyone."

"Sabi ni Carmina peg mo raw siya," Mariel told BB.

In response, the latter joked, "Parang gusto kong sabihin kay Carmina, 'Don't flatter yourself!' Charing!"

source: mb.com.ph