MANILA, Philippines – Actress- TV host Ruffa Gutierrez is on a “dating detox.”
Apparently, Gutierrez feels as if going out and meeting someone new and—maybe—falling in love, is quite a toxic matter.
And she just might be basing this on experience, getting herself mired in a storm for dating hot matinee idol John Lloyd Cruz sometime ago and all.
Doubtless, there had been other lesser known—but, obviously, not very successful—relationships as well, which she herself admitted in a recent interview with GMA News.
"I've been in one relationship after the other, so I think it's also a good experience kung pa-paano mai-rest ang ating puso. Kasi it's been one crazy cycle after another," Gutierrez said.
"I plan to have a love sabbatical," she added. "I have to keep my focus.”
Gutierrez said that her decision had also been influenced by stories she kept hearing from her acquaintances.
"Lahat ng mga nakakausap kong friends ko, all the time they're always crying, they're always sad. May mga problema sila sa mga husband nila, sa mga boyfriend nila," said she. "[So] I'm so happy na wala akong pino-problema kundi ang sarili ko at mga anak ko."
If anything, Gutierrez would rather concentrate in being a good mom to her children, Lorin and Venice.
"A lot of my decisions really have to do with them—why I will do a certain thing or why I will not do a certain thing, it's really because of Lorin and Venice," she emphasized.
In the same interview, Gutierrez shared that she and estranged husband Yilmaz Bektas are in “good terms.”
She even went on to admit that she—but most especially her kids—misses his company.
"Nakaka-miss din naman siya, [as with] 'yung bonding na nakikita ko between Lorin and Venice and their father," sabi ni Ruffa.
But it’s not as if she wants to get back with him.
"Wala na. He'll just forever remain my one true love and the father of my kids," she maintained.
Asked if she regrets having married him in the first place, Gutierrez answered in the negative.
But she admitted, "Siguro si Yilmaz masasabi kong siya 'yung true love ko, pero hindi siya 'yung forever love ko."
source: mb.com.ph
